This article is not to change anyone or change the world. This is just to let anyone rewind their past or current situations and learn few things for future situations. This article is written with my personal experience and if someone just want to know how people react to few situations in their tough times then please let me share those experiences with you.
With empty pockets sitting on the chair watching at the calender, counting days for the new month, holding mobile in a hand waiting for someone to call so that ask any of the friends to come down to my room and i shall get something to eat or at least a smoke. Filling the stomach with plenty of water to survive for the next day to face the TOUGH TIMES..............
Any person in his life has to start something with the first step only, disregard of how big the step is. In tough times we don't dare to take any steps, which is as small as asking our friend for a help to buy a html study manual with confidence because he do not believe that he can earn some bucks to return him the money he borrowed. of course many of us try for some help but with a weak heart as i said. Lets see ourself with a small example, which looks stupid yet reasonable than any other in realizing our will power.
How many of you smoke here. Are you addicted to the smoking. YES!! Did you ever face a situation that you didn't had any money with you but still you are dying for smoke. You never experienced that! Fine then go out for a day, a completely unknown place without a single cent with you. Now, those who are addicted to smoking will get their smoke and those don't smoke will find a way to their home at any cost. Thats because of the mindset we makeup to get what we want.
When i lost my previous job i felt like i got few days to take rest and later i will look for a job. But soon after few days it has become routine for me and never thought of going for job again. When i spent all my money and started searching for help i did not get any help because i was still not sure of going for job. Then how do i pay back. Due to depression i became sick and tried for a couple of jobs. FAILED. Now, i lost hopes and never step out of home for job started starving for food.
One lucky day when one of my friend helped me pay my bills and by some bread. Then he referred me for a job. I went there with a confidence that my friend will get me this job anyways. I got the job and called my friend to thank him. Do you know what he said? He said that he know no one in that company, he saw the job advertisement in the morning news paper. Very surprising for me. I felt vary great that i got that job with my own skills.
Did you find what was the difference in my previous trials for failures and this successful attempt. Confidence... Never lose you confidence to achieve something in your life. Situations try to depress you, But always remember to keep a motivating or personal development book with you to boost you from time to time. My small advice is to buy a book before situation get worse that you may not be able to buy one...............
Good Days to ALL.....
With empty pockets sitting on the chair watching at the calender, counting days for the new month, holding mobile in a hand waiting for someone to call so that ask any of the friends to come down to my room and i shall get something to eat or at least a smoke. Filling the stomach with plenty of water to survive for the next day to face the TOUGH TIMES..............
Any person in his life has to start something with the first step only, disregard of how big the step is. In tough times we don't dare to take any steps, which is as small as asking our friend for a help to buy a html study manual with confidence because he do not believe that he can earn some bucks to return him the money he borrowed. of course many of us try for some help but with a weak heart as i said. Lets see ourself with a small example, which looks stupid yet reasonable than any other in realizing our will power.
How many of you smoke here. Are you addicted to the smoking. YES!! Did you ever face a situation that you didn't had any money with you but still you are dying for smoke. You never experienced that! Fine then go out for a day, a completely unknown place without a single cent with you. Now, those who are addicted to smoking will get their smoke and those don't smoke will find a way to their home at any cost. Thats because of the mindset we makeup to get what we want.
When i lost my previous job i felt like i got few days to take rest and later i will look for a job. But soon after few days it has become routine for me and never thought of going for job again. When i spent all my money and started searching for help i did not get any help because i was still not sure of going for job. Then how do i pay back. Due to depression i became sick and tried for a couple of jobs. FAILED. Now, i lost hopes and never step out of home for job started starving for food.
One lucky day when one of my friend helped me pay my bills and by some bread. Then he referred me for a job. I went there with a confidence that my friend will get me this job anyways. I got the job and called my friend to thank him. Do you know what he said? He said that he know no one in that company, he saw the job advertisement in the morning news paper. Very surprising for me. I felt vary great that i got that job with my own skills.
Did you find what was the difference in my previous trials for failures and this successful attempt. Confidence... Never lose you confidence to achieve something in your life. Situations try to depress you, But always remember to keep a motivating or personal development book with you to boost you from time to time. My small advice is to buy a book before situation get worse that you may not be able to buy one...............
Good Days to ALL.....
